Thursday, May 19, 2011

To Be Self-Controlled & Busy At Home

To Be Self-Controlled 
& Busy At Home

“Teach the older women to … train the younger women to 
… be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind 
... so that no one will malign the Word of God."
Titus 2:3-5

Today begins a series of new posts on the topic of Time Wasters.   Each article will tie into the above Bible passage – with the goal of helping you to become the woman of God that you desire to be as a Daughter of The King!

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Can you believe how quickly the days fly by?   Do you accomplish even half of what you set out to do each day?   Or do you drop into bed at night thinking “did I even get one thing done today?”   

I’m not talking about women with infants at their breasts, babies on their laps or toddlers hanging on their skirts.   Daily life with tiny ones is already a full-plate smorgasbord!  

I’m talking about the rest of us—who have older children who can talk and walk without needing our eyes on them every minute all day long.   

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Sometimes I am ashamed of myself.   When I think about Gramma, I’m always in awe of what she accomplished each day with only a wood-burning kitchen stove and how (for many years) her water was toted in from the pump outside.     Convenience foods were things Grampa carried in from the garden and ate raw!   

I have all kinds of labor-saving devices at my disposal that Gramma never even dreamed of having!   Blender, mixer, chopper.   Microwave oven to pop corn and melt butter.  Swiffer.  High efficiency washer and dryer. 

I should be getting a LOT more done each day, yet I find myself constantly feeling guilty for wasting time.   

Maybe that’s because I WASTE TIME.   I do.   

I waste time.  I spend far too much time in front of my computer.   Sure, I work as a “virtual assistant” so I have to sit here.  And yeah, I write this blog.    

But do I really need to check my Facebook as often as I do?   Will the world come to an end if I don’t immediately respond to e-mails or Facebook?   Probably not.   

“Probably?”  Come on, Deb!   The answer is a firm and resounding NO!

What’s really weird is that I can be such a fiend about self-control in other areas.  I mean like a dictator.   Like, worse than a dictator!  

So, I’ve made up my mind to change my ways.   And I know that with God’s help, I CAN change my behavior in this area!  

Perhaps you’ll feel compelled to join me in this endeavor.    Tomorrow I’ll post the first in this series.   

"With the Lord begin your task; Jesus will direct it.
For His aid and counsel ask; Jesus will perfect it.
Every morn with Jesus rise, and, when day is ended,
In His name then close your eyes; be to Him commended."
Text:  Morgen-und Abend-segen, Waldenburg, 1734, 
translated by W. Gustave Polack, 1890-1950
from "Christian Worship" Hymn #478 

2 comments:

MissMOE said...

Great post. I've just recently limited my computer time to before 9:30 in the morning. I can get up at 5:30 to write or I can roll out of bed at 8:30. The choice is mine. I've found this rule helps me focus my computer time so much better. Do I want to write and accomplish something or do I want to waste my time on facebook? I'm a new follower--can't wait to read more on this subject.

Mrs. Aitch said...

Hey MissMOE.....I get up around 6:30 ... and post my "Verse-of-the-Day" and "Today's Wisdom from Proverbs" on my Facebook....read what my kids posted the day before, then I get cracking on my day. It takes discipline to NOT get sucked into the computer!!! Thanks for following!!